I love to cook. I love to EAT more, but I do love to cook, and I dare say I’m rather good at it most of the time.
I have a few challenges with cooking, though, that tend to minimize the enjoyment that I get from the task. As a mom of 5 kids, I can’t afford to be “off” when food is concerned. If I run out of cereal or don’t have anything prepared for dinner, the situation around here can be quite hectic. Since dinner time is the biggest meal of the day at our house, I figured I’d concentrate on dinner time today.
Common dinner time challenges:
- I don’t know what to cook (I haven’t planned meals ahead of time)
- I know what I want to cook, but I don’t have the ingredients I need
- I cook what I want, but the kids complain and refuse to eat it
- I make dinner but we run out before everyone is satisfied
- I don’t start cooking early enough (which can be a pretty serious situation on those nights when we have night time activities)
- The kitchen is a mess and there’s no room on the counter to prepare the meal
- The dishes I need are dirty when I need to use them
- The kids want to “help” with every step
- The kids are whiny, tired, and underfoot
- I am tired, whiny, and just want to rest after a long day
Ok, after that list, I feel the need to reiterate that I LOVE to cook. I have been trying more and more regularly to share the recipes that my big family loves to eat (and, yes, I mix plenty of desserts in with the main course recipes). Sharing recipes here tends to make me more deliberate about the meals that I cook, and I love that.
The fact is – kids are not very forgiving when Mom or Dad don’t provide dinner at approximately the same time every night. And, the older my kids get, the less they tolerate “quick and easy kid meals” like hot dogs and mac n cheese.
Now that you’ve heard my dinner time challenges, I’m going to share a few tips that make dinner time a success for my family of seven.
Tips for making dinner time a success
- Plan ahead – I don’t always stay on top of meal planning, but when I do, it pays off ten-fold. The hardest part of cooking for me is always deciding what to cook. When I take that pressure off, the meal prep goes so much more smoothly.
- Try new things regularly ….but know what good foods your kids will eat no matter what and keep them around. For instance, all 5 of my kids are happy to eat raw veggies dipped in Ranch dressing. While I wouldn’t serve that every night, it’s nice to know that I can add some carrots or celery to the table whenever I feel like trying something more exotic and suited to older taste buds.
- Have a list of stand-by recipes – Years ago, I wrote a list of 25 recipe that I could make in less than an hour (most in about 30 minutes). I chose recipes that I almost always have ingredients for, and recipes that are always people-pleasers. Some of those recipes are simple things like spaghetti, quesadillas and salad, or baked potatoes and canned chili.
- Clean the kitchen before starting dinner – My kids know that they are responsible to make sure the dishwasher is unloaded and reloaded with dirty dishes as soon as they come home from school. I typically run the dishwasher twice a day. Yes, we go through that many dishes!
- Teach the kids to cook – I’ve talked about the fact that each of my kids can cook several times. As hard as it was to “waste” so much time letting kids measure and stir over the years, the benefits now are worth it. When I know I’ll be getting home late, sick, or just extra busy, I rely on my kids to cook dinner. And because I’ve taught them well, we don’t have to eat ramen when it’s their turn.
kids can cook!
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Planning ahead is SO good. I do much better when I plan and shop for the week since we normally do our grocery shopping on Sundays.
So…how old do the kids need to be to really help?
My oldest is almost 5, and I let her “help” whenever I can.
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Lolli Reply:
June 2nd, 2012 at 11:04 pm
You might have a few more years before your kids are truly helping, but it is never too early yo have your kids working along side you. By the time they are ready for some independent “work” it will be simple to teach the, because they’ve watched and learned all along.
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That is my downfall- not preparing my meals in advance. I appreciate the tips because I need all the help I can get!
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Lolli Reply:
June 1st, 2012 at 9:49 pm
I feel like I should start up a weekly meal planning post. It sounds like many people need that extra little kick to make it happen.
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These are all good tips – I don’t have a big family, so I can only imagine – getting dinner ready for just 2 is bad enough! (And I love to cook too, I just wish I had more time in each day! LOL!)
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Lolli Reply:
June 1st, 2012 at 9:48 pm
Totally! I would enjoy cooking much more if that’s all I had to do. It’s all those other distractions that make cooking so hard!
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It gets hectic here when we don’t know what’s for dinner and we’re only a family of four! I need to start meal planning again, I used to but I’ve let it sleep over the past two years and we’ve started falling into the “what’s for dinner” rut again. These are great tips!
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Lolli Reply:
June 1st, 2012 at 9:47 pm
I just hate the what’s for dinner rut! Even so, I can’t figure out why it’s so hard to stick with the meal planning routine.
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i love the clean the kitchen first tip. mine’s currently resembling a warzone than a kitchen.
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Lolli Reply:
June 1st, 2012 at 9:45 pm
Hah! My kitchen is a war zone quite often.
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I love LOVE your pictures and tips. Every one of the challenges you face I face, too! I swear we are TWINS
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Lolli Reply:
June 1st, 2012 at 12:08 pm
It’s SO true. I do think it takes a certain kind of crazy….I mean woman…to have big families like ours. LOL
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